Paul Bura, a wonderful poet and a lovely friend of mine, passed away peacefully earlier this morning in hospital. His final battle with many ailments is over. In all his devastating illnesses he still conveyed a tremendous sense of humour and inner peace. He touched the hearts and minds of many people.
I first met Paul in the mid-70’s when he used to run Manna, a health food shop in Herne Bay. People came to him with their troubles and fears; they always left uplifted.
I lost contact with Paul when I went to live in France and he to the wilds of Wales. Then in 1998 I received a letter and a book of poems from him and from then on we were avid letter writers sending each other poems and playlets and musing about the world and generally having fun. He often signed his letters – love n light n laughter! That was his philosophy of life.
Paul has published about 10 anthologies of poems as well as a novel and a thought-provoking book about crop circles despite a tough start to his young life. He was struck down with polio when he was seven years old and his early years were spent in hospitals and special (read: brutal) schools for handicapped children. He could have been a wonderful stage actor with his deep booming voice and his gift for all things thespian. But it was not to be.
Instead, he concocted himself a fascinating life that embraced poetry and live performances and crop circles and the spiritual world and many other things.
Throughout all his ordeals, he kept a smile on his face and joy in his heart. As if he hadn’t had enough physical hardship inflicted on him, about 15 years ago he started having fits and it was discovered he had meningioma, a tumour on the brain. It was a terrifying ordeal for him and yet he somehow kept his sense of humour throughout.
He wrote in his book, The Stranger on the Threshold, that his brain tumour was the size of an orange:
“They did not specify what size of orange: a Jaffa or the smaller Spanish variety!”
Typical Bura. Deal with adversity with a quip and move on.
His poetry attracted fans from far and wide.
Spike Milligan, the comedian, actor and writer, was a fan and wrote:
Paul Bura is a straight down-the-line poet. He is sensitive and emotional, a journalistic poet with a good sense of imagery.
In a foreword to an anthology of Paul’s poetry, Brand New, I wrote:
And yet he is more than just a journalistic poet, although he himself writes that he strives to be “just a poet”. His talent lies in his deceptively simple style that lures us so effortlessly into his world. He leads us down paths we never imagined existed; he can also take us down well-trodden paths we know and make us see them anew. Knowing Paul, he would probably add he sometimes leads us up the garden path as well . . . He’s a poet who cares . . . Just another poet? I don’t think so.
Christy Brown, the Irish writer and painter who was portrayed by Daniel Day-Lewis in the film My Left Foot, enthused about Paul’s writing:
I laughed out loud in my midnight room at some of his tough, witty descriptions of childhood, smiled sadly at his love encounters, and groaned when he struck a certain all too responsive chord within myself. He has a voice that would make Dylan Thomas growl in his grave with envy.
Ian Dury, the English rock and roll singer, said:
This geezer says it the way it is.
John Webster, a longtime pal of Paul’s and a friend and former Whitstable Times colleague of mine, wrote on Facebook this morning:
“One of the finest, bravest, most humane people I’ve ever had the privilege to know and indeed, call my best friend, Paul Bura,passed on today. He’d had two epileptic fits and contracted chronic pneumonia. Stoic and brave to the last, he refused the oxygen. Paul, I raise a glass and a reefer to you, soul brother.”
John also paid tribute to Paul with this on Facebook:
No more poetry on a brown paper bag
No more words of comfort and soulful wisdom
No more side splitting jokes on the ironies of life
You were our great soul brother
A life of pain and struggle turned around
Light and eternal love of our lives
A candle burns in our hearts for you, dear friend
May you find where your heart always belonged.
Paul Bura, 67, only a few days before being rushed to hospital, posted on his blog this month a poem. I’ll let my dear friend have the final word:
STEPPING THROUGH
Step through
And just melt
Into timelessness
Spacelessness
And become just
What IS!
No I no me no anything,
And become it all,
All of it!
How sad. We can’t afford to lose people like this. But what great memories. And poems.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend, he sounds like a very special person. xx
Bill and Akela, Thanks for your comments. He was a very special person.
He sounds like a really lovely person.
He knew.
Elaine, he was.
Shammy, I think he did.
What a lovely tribute to Paul! He was such a great soul…
He and I have written a book together over the last two years called ‘Downloads From the Higher Self’, which we were just about to publish when he died. So I fully intend to go ahead with the publication as a tribute to him. Details will be posted on his website.
Thank you for having the words I haven’t got, to say how special Paul was, and how badly he will be missed
Fif,
Thanks. And I’ll look out for the book.
Carol,
He was special and will be badly missed by many.
am sitting here with my friend,we were pauls carers and he will be sadly missed.,lovely to read such lovely comments about paul.xxRachel and Rachel.xx
Rachel and Rachel,
You must have got to know Paul very well. He went through one medical ordeal after another and yet he always seemed to stay cheerful but it must have been hard. And for you too (or you two!)
Hi,yes it has been very hard,we have lost a very valued friend,(I actually feel like ive lost my best friend).Paul was an amazing man , a true legend,always worrying about everyone else,we have so many fantastic memories of him that will keep us going,but there will never be another paul.We will miss him so much.xxxx
Endorse everything said. Still have some copies of The Oak on the Plain and Stepping to the Drummer. Lovely man and we were proud to know and privileged to publish two of his books. – well, re-publish one. Met him through Fountain International. Love ‘n’ Light as Paul would say.
Sandra & Claire.
Sandra & Claire,
Thank you for your comment. Yes, Paul used to say love n light n laughter. That was him through and through.
Dear Paul… a BIG BIG person…..I never forget the twinkle in his eye when he arranged to have a monolith, a Standing Stone delivered to Bosham House, where I used to work as editor with Hanne Jahr, especially when he told us he had swapped the monolith with the farmer who owned the field it lay in, with a bottle of whiskey.
Let’s release a baloon each for the ‘love, light and laughter’ he sent into the world.
Reblogged this on Virginia Aurora Scott Composer and commented:
Paul brought much joy and light to two concerts of my work How the Song Grows in North Wales a few years ago. It was a priveledge to work with him and hear his beautiful readings.
Paul was a wonderful man full of life and laughter. I will miss him we had some good laughs and some great conversations. I was also one of his carers and my greatest memory of him will be the special meal I would make for him on a Sunday we called it `The One Pot Sunday Roast` and it was Huge but he always enjoyed it. I will really miss making that for him.
I will never forget Paul and I am so glad that I had the great pleasure of getting to know him. Claire.xxxx
As the very essence of ‘Love n Light n Laughter’, he was one of the best and will be so well remembered by so many. I especially treasure Paul’s book ‘Stepping to the Drummer’. In it, he describes his channeling of Jeuz from Sirius (28th June 1994) … just one day following our group’s very first exchange with the Angelic Being ‘Salumet’. Magical times! Paul wrote the foreword to our ‘Salumet’ book; also an endorsement to our interplanetary communications book ‘Planet Aerah’. Notaries and dear ones from spirit often join our seance meetings for a chat. I do so hope that Paul will drop by, share a laugh and bring us up to date!
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Let me add belatedly that you succeeded in bringing Paul back to life. A beautful, stirring tribute.
I went to school with Paul and had recently been in touch. I enjoyed his poems and ramblings. I will miss him. Love to his family, especially Melvina who was in my class at Gundolf House School.
Coral